Tuesday 17 April 2012

deeper than knowing

What do you think of when you watch a show, read a book, say something? What aspects of a certain thing brings your attention to it?
The unknown questions we find ourselves asking in our minds are the type of things that we make our impressions on situations in everyday life. Depending on how we relate to these impressions, we give more attention to it or we let it slip by and move onto the next thing.

There are people in this world which we can almost feel like we can tell so much about them by just looking at them, or even talking to them for a little while, but there are also lots of people that are really really hard to read and determine the type of person they are.
 We all usually fall prey to judging people from the time we see them, as their outlook is what we have to use from the beginning.. This however may not be the case as we know that people don't always look like the person you would expect them to be.

The way people are with their actions, responses and reactions are the small glimpses into how their minds work, and the type of person they are. These kind of things are what allows us to determine if a person is worthy of our attention, or if we are going to make an attempt to gain the attention to the aforementioned person. These things also depend on the interaction between different people, as people also act differently towards different people depending on their views.

There are people who like finding stable people who are easy to predict and calm and even. Then there are people who are exciting, impulsive and not so stable but can be expected to do things that you wouldn't necessarily have done or thought they would do. This does not mean that the latter is untrustworthy, but rather a bit more complex than predictable.

I feel that these type of complex people are what makes life more interesting and have a lot to share in terms of interaction and the way they carry out their lives. People who take time to think about things tend to be more caring. This caring nature may exist in simpler people, but i think that it is without much passion. The fact i also think is true, is that i feel that everyone is complex to an extent and the only difference is the reaction with whom they are like that with.

People have different phases in their life in terms of what they want and what makes them feel safe/happy, but in the end, i think that the main quality that endures is the one of someone who always has something to share, or for you to discover about them. I like discovering, and sometimes even if it may be like a hunt of sorts, but certainly there is a lot to learn about people if you make the effort.

how complex are you then? :-)


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